Hi, I´m Rebecca.
Dedicated family Coach.
Get to know more about me, my passion and my work. Excited to have you here!
Welcome.
I’m Rebecca Harms. I´m an engineer, a professional family coach, and a mother. I believe that family is the most important business we will ever run.
As an engineer, I was trained to design systems that work under real-world pressure. When I started my own family and especially after my son was born, I realized that family life is the most complex system of all.
Children are deeply important to me. They are our future. And they can only grow into grounded, confident, and happy individuals when their parents are not constantly overwhelmed, exhausted, or stuck in survival mode. The foundation parents create today shapes not only their children’s lives, but the world they will one day contribute to.
Who I work with.
- Parents of young children
- Dual-career families
- Parents carrying most of the mental load
New ways after 11 years in engineering.
Following my passion.
After beeing an engineer and becoming a mom I wanted to follow my passion in a different way. My passion has always been to understand how systems work and how to make them better. So I decided to become a professional family coach. My coaching is solution-focused, holistic, structured, and empathetic.
Why I do this work
Families don’t need more effort. They need better systems, clearer agreements, and permission to slow down. When parents feel less overloaded, children feel it immediately. Family Engineering is about redesigning family life so it actually works — not just on paper, but in real life. If you’re ready to move from survival mode to a family life with more ease, clarity, and connection, I invite you to book a complimentary introductory conversation.
I´m here to help!
What you can expect from me.
Take a look at what you can expect from me and see if it suits you
Engineering mindset.
Systems thinking, structure and practical solutions.
Professional coaching.
All services are solution-focused, structured, empathetic, and grounded in systems thinking.
Working parent.
The lived experience of being a working parent.